Psychological well-being is a concept that includes a balance between positive and negative emotions of a person, self-satisfaction, as well as their life and its spheres. This concept reflects a person's desire for inner balance and comfort. In everyday life, the term well-being is synonymous with the concept of happiness, as well as a favorable physical and mental state. Psychological well-being is one of the components of a person's mental health.
It is worth noting that the violation of emotional contacts with parents leads to a decrease in the sense of security, behavioral abnormalities, low self-esteem and impaired mental health of children.
Thus, we see that the relationship between parents and the child, that is, their emotional contact, is important for the psychological health of the child.
Often in the form of a recommendation for parents, the phrase "pay more attention, love and care to your child"sounds. What does this mean? Be attentive to your child about what he wants than interested in how he feels in a given situation, is friends with whom, what he fears, what he wants from You, from friends, like when filled with his life in between studying and eating. Naturally, for this purpose it is necessary to spend some time together with the child "just like that": to walk together, play, watch cartoons, talk, in other words − to communicate and enjoy it. It is clear that modern parents, forced to do everything on the run, often do not have the opportunity to find time to communicate with the child "just like that", and not for any purpose. What should I do? In fact, you can find time.
Emotional contact between parent and child is probably the most important thing. It requires strength, it is not always easy to implement due to the adults ' own fatigue. But the reward for the efforts and efforts of an adult is trust and understanding of the child's inner world and its problems, which you will be the first to learn about and be able to help. In this regard, a favorable climate in the family develops.
Important indicators of a favorable psychological climate of the family are the desire of its members to spend their free time in the home circle, talk about topics that interest everyone, do homework together, emphasize the dignity and good deeds of everyone. This climate promotes harmony, relieves stress, reduces the severity of conflicts, increases self-importance and the realization of the potential of each family member.
A psychologically successful child is, first of all, a spontaneous and creative child, cheerful and cheerful, open, who knows himself and the world around him not only with his mind, but also with his feelings and intuition. He fully accepts himself, and at the same time, accepts the value and uniqueness of the people around him.