It is good to be a confident person, and not just good, but very good, and at the same time pleasant, profitable, interesting and quite promising. Self-confident people achieve great success in this life, because their confidence allows them to be quite active people in life and act in those situations in which insecure people prefer to do nothing. Unfortunately, self-confidence is not common to many people, not because we are born confident or insecure people, but because of different circumstances we become what we become. Hence the prevalence of this problem – the problem of self-doubt, because most people become more insecure than confident, they are depressed and downtrodden, they are morally weak and cowardly, and it is difficult for them to live with all this. Many people are unhappy with themselves, because they feel, and less likely to understand their uncertainty, feeling at the same time its weakness.
You can become a more confident person if you are not too lazy to make some effort to work on yourself. A person can always change, but it's a pity that they don't always want to. Nature created man so that he could adapt to any conditions and achieve any goals, so if a person wants – he can. High self-esteem and self-confidence are not permanent qualities of a person at all, high self-esteem can decrease, and self-confidence can simply disappear. Life, friends, is able to break down each. Yes, but not everyone agrees to break. Well, if something can disappear and fall, then something can appear and grow, one without the other does not happen. So-do not go limp, in any case, because everything in us is fixable, no matter who says what.
Well, now it's time to ask the most important question – how to become a confident person? This can be done either through the emotional sphere, pumping your psyche and raising your self-esteem using various methods of auto-suggestion, or you can also come to a state of self-confidence through awareness. In the first case, the result is achieved quickly, but it is not stable and short-lived, a person who supports his confidence with emotions can quickly go out, as well as light up. Therefore, I do not consider all these psychological pumping, all these suggestions and autosuggestions aimed exclusively at the subconscious of a person, seriously, although they have an effect, it must be admitted. For me, only a complete understanding of who and what a person is will allow them to once and for all gain confidence in themselves and, regardless of external circumstances, remain confident for the rest of their lives. Similarly, it should be said that no external factors should affect a person's confidence in themselves, their own strength and capabilities, the external world should not shape our internal world, on the contrary, it is our internal world that should shape the external world. But this is not easy to come to, it is clear, it is a hard and long, disciplined work on yourself, the result of which is possible only if a person approaches it seriously and responsibly, if he really wants to find a real, impeccable self-confidence.
We must act! Do you agree? You must act, you must be an active person, so that you know exactly what you are capable of and what tasks you can and cannot do at the moment. Without activity, without real action, you will never know what opportunities are hidden within you and what you can achieve through them.
You have no objective reason to feel insecure, and I would like to draw your attention to this once again, dear readers. And all your subjective ideas about yourself, if they somehow interfere with your life and make you unsure of yourself, you can study in detail with the help of self-analysis or with the help of a psychologist. We psychologists don't eat our bread for nothing. And if suddenly someone has suggested to you that you are somehow worse than other people, then we will convince you of the opposite, we will convince you that you are the best person on earth, that you are the best of all. This is a more correct installation, more promising. Well, friends, confidence and self-confidence are not far from each other. And if you doubt that being a self-confident person is good, pay attention to successful people, they are realists, but they present themselves to society as if they are not people, but gods. To lower your self-esteem and suppress your self-confidence, there are always those who want to, and there are far fewer people in this world who can give you confidence in yourself. Of course, you yourself should perceive yourself adequately, but in some cases, excessive faith in your capabilities will not prevent you, people have always done the impossible only when they allowed the possibility of the impossible.