You, of course, have also met women in your life for whom men are ready to kill themselves. How do they do this? Yes, with a flick of your lashes! And these women are not always written beauties. But they always feel like Queens at heart, who are both worthy and deserving. And the thing is that they just know how to inspire their men.
It is interesting to look closely at how these smart ladies manage their husbands. They don't command them, God forbid! They just give them a task: "Honey, you need to do something. Try and help, we hope for you." When a woman is confident and knows what she wants, a man can't refuse her. This is what is called ruling with an iron hand in a velvet glove.
In principle, a woman has the right to expect from a man's care, custody, responsibility. After all, he is strong, he can do a lot. Also, he chose her from all the others, she became the mother of his children. But for him to be responsible for his family, he must be encouraged to do so. That is, to skillfully put this burden on him.
Some women are not afraid to make their demands to men. They are young, beautiful, and brave. If they want to, they will always find a man who will do everything they need. Some call them bitches. Call it what you want, but it is these women who have a sense of their value and significance.
But the fact is that many women are afraid to demand. Outwardly, they can look strong, confident, able to pull everything on themselves. But in a relationship with a man, they become timid, wordless.
According to psychologists, the main thing is to realize your self-worth. Become a self-sufficient person who knows how to be happy with yourself, regardless of the presence of a man in your life. Don't put it in the center of your world. Shine yourself, be the center of attraction for people. Then there will be self — confidence-not outwardly ostentatious, but deep, real, which does not need to be proved to anyone.
Drop your fears: you deserve everything and deserve everything. Of course, this does not mean that you do not need to work on yourself. Of course, you do! You need to be attractive, well-groomed, feminine. But not to hold anyone back, but to please yourself.
And Yes, you will have to learn to demand. But! There is a very important point here. It is necessary to forget forever about the "scandalous genre", reproaches, shouts, rudeness. All this is just a manifestation of an unconscious fear that you will not be listened to in any other way. The power of a woman is quiet, not loud. When you speak calmly and confidently, the partner feels it, then your words become valid. And they obey weighty words.
Speak to your loved one gently and affectionately, then he will not be able to refuse you. Be a Queen at heart, who will not even think that she can refuse. The women I spoke of at the beginning behaved like this. They communicated with their husbands calmly, sweetly, amiably, expressed their requests quietly, but weightily — and did not know refusal.